Relationships should make us feel safe and secure: your ‘Right to Ask’

 

You shouldn’t feel afraid of your partner or family. Nothing they’re going through or anything you have done is an excuse for hurting you or making you feel afraid. If someone is attempting to control, isolate, manipulate or pressure another person this could be domestic abuse.

Domestic abuse can happen to anyone, of any gender, sexuality, race, ability or religion. It can happen between family members as well as in romantic relationships. Everyone has the right to relationships that are free from abuse, and anyone can use their Right to Ask to help keep themself, or someone else, safe.

 

What is the ‘Right to Ask’?

The ‘Right to Ask’ gives anyone a right to ask the police if someone has an abusive past. If you’re concerned that you may be at risk of harm from a current or ex-partner, you can apply for information about them. The ‘Right to Ask’ can show if you may be at risk from someone and allow you to make informed decisions about your relationship.

Concerned friends, family members and professionals can also use the scheme if they’re worried about someone.

The ‘Right to Ask’ is part of the Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS). This scheme recognises that most perpetrators of domestic abuse are repeat offenders and that everyone has a right to know if they’re in a relationship with someone who may pose a risk.

The intention of sharing information under the scheme is to allow individuals to make informed decisions about their relationships and help keep them safe from harm.

 

What happens when you use your ‘Right to Ask’?

The police will check to see if that person has a record of domestic abuse. They will also look for any other information that suggests they pose a risk of abusive behaviour. If the police find anything concerning, they will share this with the person who is at risk of abuse. In some situations, they may share the information with someone who can protect that person. No hard copies of information will be shared. Information disclosed is for safeguarding only and not for used in court proceedings.

 

How to use the scheme

Step 1 – Initial enquiry. You can do this with support from a Domestic Violence Disclosure Scheme (DVDS) Specialist, or directly with the police. You’ll be asked to give your name, address and date of birth.

There are three ways you can do this

 

Step 2 – Accepting your request. You will be contacted and asked to provide some form of ID and sign an agreement. This agreement outlines who any information will be shared with and what it can, and can’t, be used for.

Step 3 – Checks and Risk Assessment. The police will run checks and a risk assessment. If relevant information is found, they will meet with relevant agencies to discuss what information can be shared.

Step 4 – The outcome. You will be contacted with the outcome confirming if there is, or is not, any information to be shared. If checks show that the person has a record of abusive offences, the police may disclose this information if they feel it can prevent future crimes. If there is information which can’t be shared, the police will consider other ways to keep the person at risk protected.

 

If something feels off in your relationship, be safe, not sorry. Use your Right to Ask to keep yourself or someone else safe.

 

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