Support for people experiencing domestic abuse
Our LGBTQ+ domestic abuse service is run by and for LGBTQ+ people, so you’re talking to someone who understands. Whatever your gender, sexuality, or relationship, you deserve support that’s confidential, non-judgemental, and built around you.
Confidential support
Run by and for LGBTQ+ people.
Practical safety planning
Confidential, non-judgemental support.
Emotional & legal guidance
No pressure to make decisions.
A service for all LGBTQ+ people
Our LGBTQ+ domestic abuse service is here for anyone in the LGBTQ+ community experiencing domestic abuse – whatever your gender, sexuality or relationship.
Our dedicated service, recognises that LGBTQ+ people can face unique barriers when seeking support. We understand that trans and non-binary survivors, in particular, may find it difficult to access services designed around a single gender.
You don’t have to fit a label or relationship type to get support. Our service is here for you, whoever you are.
We support people aged 16 and over in Nottingham City, and 18 and over elsewhere in Nottinghamshire.
What to expect when you get in touch
Getting in touch doesn’t mean you have to make any decisions straight away. You can simply talk to us, and we’ll go at your pace.
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What you tell us is confidential.
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You’re in control. We won’t contact your partner or ask you to take any action you don’t want to.
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Share as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. There’s no pressure to tell us everything.
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We’ll listen and talk things through with you, including what support might look like and what feels right for you.
How we can support you
We offer practical, specialist support tailored to your circumstances, including:
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One-to-one support by phone or in person.
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Safety planning to help you think through ways to stay safer.
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Practical advice to help you understand your options and next steps.
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Connections to specialist services, including support around chemsex and HIV.
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Support for professionals working with LGBTQ+ survivors, including advice, training and referral pathways.
Frequently asked questions
We know reaching out can feel like a big step. Here are answers to some questions you might have.
Is your support confidential and safe?
Yes. Our support is confidential, and we’ll treat what you tell us with care and respect. You can choose how much information you share, and you don’t have to give your real name.
We’ll only share information with other services or professionals where we have your permission, unless we have a serious concern about someone’s safety or there is a legal reason why we have to.
Your safety and privacy are important to us, and we’ll talk to you about any concerns before sharing information wherever possible.
Will you tell my partner I’ve been in touch?
No. We won’t contact your partner, or anyone else, without your permission.
Do you support trans and non-binary people?
Yes. Our service is for all LGBTQ+ identities, including trans and non-binary survivors.
Can a professional refer someone to this service?
Yes. Professionals can refer with someone’s consent, or contact us directly for advice and consultation.
Do I have to know exactly what to call my experience?
No. You don’t need the right words, or to be certain it’s abuse. If something doesn’t feel right, we’re here to talk it through.
Is this service only for people who are “out”?
No. You don’t have to be out, or certain of your identity, to use our service.
What if I’m not ready to leave my relationship?
That’s OK. Getting in touch doesn’t mean you have to leave. We can support you, whatever you decide.
What areas and ages does this service cover?
We support LGBTQ+ people aged 16 and over living Nottingham city, and over 18 in Nottinghamshire county.
Refer yourself or someone you’re worried about
Whether you’re looking for support for yourself or someone else, complete our referral form or contact us directly. You can stay anonymous and choose how much to share. We’ll respond within 48 hours.
We’re here Monday to Friday, 9.30am to 4.30pm, excluding bank holidays (7.30pm on Wednesdays) – 24/7 confidential answerphone at other times.
Working with LGBTQ+ survivors as a professional?
If you’re supporting someone LGBTQ+ affected by domestic abuse, we offer training, consultation, and referral routes.
Complete the form below for help and support or for a professional referral
We aim to contact you within 1-2 business days.